About Elaine
Mission
My name is Elaine, you have probably gathered that. For over a decade I worked with autistic young adults never considering that I myself could ever be autistic.
I had checked all the boxes a "typical" person would along the way in my life, from early childhood to adulthood. I went to school, made some friends, went to university, got married, bought a house, got a dog and had a child. Tick, tick, tick on those, but something never felt natural about any of my life stages. In fact, not one of these things came easy or natural to me. There was always a little girl who was peddling really fast under the surface, just to keep myself from drowning.
After years of burnouts, anxiety, depression, rejection sensitivity, rumination amongst other things, I began to see each stage of my life for what it was. Masked autism.
Method
As an autistic parent you bring a distinct perspective to parenting. Your experiences shape how you interact with your child and the world around you. Understanding this unique viewpoint is essential. Your sensory sensitivities, communication style, and thought processes can influence your parenting approach. For instance, you might find certain environments overwhelming, which can affect family outings.
Recognizing these aspects of yourself can help you create a nurturing environment for your child. Building a Support Network. One of the most important steps in your parenting journey is building a support network. Surrounding yourself with understanding friends, family, and fellow parents can make a significant difference. Consider joining local or online groups for autistic parents. These communities can provide a safe space to share experiences, seek advice, and find encouragement. Here are some ways to build your support network with other parents: Look for local meetups or online forums where you can share your experiences and learn from others.Seek professional support: Therapists or counselors who specialize in autism can offer valuable insights and coping strategies.Engage with your child’s school: Building relationships with teachers and staff can help create a supportive environment for your child.
Credentials
Professional Diploma in Coaching & Mentoring.
I am a qualified life coach who specialises in working with autistic adults late identified and with autistic parents. My approach is gentle and neuroaffirming. I offer accommodations and encourage all clients to suggest what works best for them. I have a passion for helping others overcome challenges and live fulfilling lives. My coaching approach is tailored to each client's unique needs, promoting self-discovery, resilience, and emotional well-being.
BA Hons Early Childhood U.C.C.
I hold a 1st Class Hons Degree in Early Childhood Studies. During my degree I studied Child Care Policy, Developmental Pyschology, Disability Studies, Paedatric & Child Health Studies and Pedagogy. This learning informed my understanding of the importance of supporting the holistic development of each child and its impact on the adult the become in the future.
Expertise
Through specialized training and ongoing professional development, I stay updated with the latest coaching techniques and evidence-based practices. With over a decade working in the disability services I understand the importance of promoting well-being, inclusion, autonomy and self-advocacy. I bring this experience to my coaching style. and always hold my clients in unconditional positive regard.
Approach
My holistic approach integrates various coaching modalities to address the interconnected aspects of an individual's well-being. By considering the mind, body, and spirit, I strive to foster comprehensive healing and growth.
Affiliations
I am a member of Thriving Autistic, I advertise my coaching services on their neuroaffirming practitioners website. I practice in lines with the ICF & EMCC code of ethics. I am insured and uphold confidentiality of all my clients in line with GDPR.
Achievements
My coaching has been recognized for its impact on clients' lives and the new sense of confidence felt following our work together. I take pride in the positive outcomes achieved through coaching and the transformative journeys of individuals towards mental wellness and self acceptance.
Booking, Pricing & Payment Options:
Calls are booked in via email. If you let me know when you are ready I'll email my availability for you to choose.
Some people like the same time every week, others like to book in when they have the energy or processing time. Calls can be 30minutes or 60 minutes duration. I'm here to meet your needs.
Discovery Call Online - Free no charge
30 Minutes Coaching Online - €30/ £26.00
60 Minutes Coaching Online - €50/£43.50
Package offer 10 x 1 hour sessions - €450 / £397
1 Hour 30 minutes - Personal Styling Wardrobe Weed Online - €150/ £132
Payment
Payment can be made via PayPal, apps such as Revolut or bank transfer. Sessions can be cancelled up to 24 hours' notice with no charge, after that the full fee is payable.